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Rabu, 20 April 2016

View of conflict

   Conflict within an organization is not always viewed as undersirable. In fact, various managers have widely divergen ideas on the value that conflict can have.

   According to traditional view of conflict, conflict is harmful to an organization managers with this traditional view of conflict see it as their role in an organization to rid the organization of any sources of conflict.

   The interctionist view of conflict, on the other hand, holds that conflict can serve an important funcion in an organization by reducing complacency among workers and causing positive change to occur. Managers who hold an interactionist view of conflict may actually take step to stimulate conflict within the organization.

''The article of SBMPTN exercise book :)''

Rabu, 06 April 2016

Teguran Terindah..

Flashback..

Satu tahun lalu, tepatnya di saat-saat menjelang pelaksanaan Tafakur Alam..

Alhamdulillah..
Allah memberikan saya salah satu hadiah hasil dari ukhuwah.. :)

Hadiah yang mungkin sekilas terlihat membingungkan karena berupa teguran..
Hadiah yang Allah kirimkan sebagai pengingat di saat saya mungkin akan 'tergelincir' lebih jauh dalam melangkah..

Alhamdulillah, di saat itu, salah satu saudara seiman saya memberikan kata-kata sederhana namun penuh makna..

Kata-katanya kurang lebih seperti ini..

"Di saat kita benar, beristighfarlah sedangkan di saat kita salah, ucapkanlah Alhamdulillah.."

Singkat kalimatnya, tetapi setelah di pikirkan, ada benarnya..

Beristighfar di saat benar..

Adalah salah satu cara untuk mengindari diri dari sifat angkuh atau sombong..
Terkadang, di saat kita benar, timbul suatu rasa percaya diri akan kehebatan diri sendiri yang mungkin tanpa kita sadari dapat menjadi celah masuknya syaiton..

Contohnya adalah di saat syuro..
Mungkin saat pendapat kita dijadikan pertimbangan dalam mufakat syuro, timbul suatu rasa kebanggan akan kedewasaan pola pikir kita..
Padahal faktanya, mungkin saja pola pikir kita sebenarnya masih kurang..
Tetapi syaiton melebih-lebihkannya sehingga timbul rasa angkuh ini..

Semoga Allah SWT senantiasa menghidarkan kita dari sifat tidak baik ini..
Aamiin..

Selanjutnya Mengucap Alhamdulillah di saat salah..

Hal ini dapat memberikan kita Mindset 'Positive Thinking'..
Bahwa kita masih harus terus belajar..
Belajar untuk menjadi lebih baik..

Mungkin inilah teguran indah yang tercipta atas dasar ukhuwah..

Rasa simpati antar sesama muslim dalam bentuk nasehat..

Nasehat saling mengingatkan akan tarbiyah sang illahi.. :)

Apa Kabar Adik-adik Pengusung Panji Islam?

Tak terasa sudah hampir satu tahun angkatan kami menyerahkan tonggak kepemimpinan dakwah pada adik-adik kami..

Teringat moment-moment dulu saat canda tawa, kebahagiaan, kesedihan, kekecewaan, keikhlasan bergejolak menjadi satu..

Di saat Allah memberikan kami ujian silih berganti, menyisipkan harapan yang kami bangun atas prinsip la illaha ilallah..
Saat-saat gema takbir memberi kami semangat..
Surat Muhammad ayat 7 menjadi kata-kata indah yang mengingatkan kami kepada sang illahi..

"Tenang, ada Allah.."
Begitulah kata-kata yang sering kami lontarkan untuk menghibur saudara-saudara seperjuangan kami..

Terbayang saat-saat belajar bersama memperbaiki diri..
Bersama belajar memperdalam ilmu agama dalam metoring dan tadarus..
Bersama belajar memahami keanekaragaman pemikiran satu sama lain saat syuro..
Bersama berusaha melakukan yang terbaik untuk menyukseskan acara..

Hmm..
Betapa banyak kenangan yang telah kita ukir walaupun regenerasi berjalan dengan cepat..

Memang, yang kita lakukan masih jauh dari sempurna..
Karna memang kesempurnaan hanya milik Allah.. :)

Dan tak terasa kini sudah banyak perubahan yang adik-adik kami lakukan..
Dimulai dari perubahan struktur divisi rohis menjadi lima yaitu; Syiar, Kaderisasi, Media&Masjid, Ekonomi, dan Keputrian..

Semoga dengan adanya perubahan ini, dapat membuat sinergisme dakwah di sekolah semakin baik..
Aamiin..

Namun, jika diingat-ingat kembali, kami akui, keberadaan kami kurang maksimal di rohis..
Terutama akhir-akhir ini, di saat kami sedang sibuk-sibuknya kelas XII mempersiapkan UN maupun ujian-ujian masuk PTN..

Bahkan di saat kami punya kesempatan untuk bertemu adik-adik kami, entah mengapa menjadi canggung, walaupun hanya sekadar menyapa..

Apakah mungkin karna ukhuwah kita satu sama lain belum kuat?
Mudah-mudahan bukan..

Walaupun begitu, kami bersyukur karna Allah telah mempertemukan kita semua..
Semoga perjumpaan kita ini tetap berlamgsung hingga ke taman-taman surga Allah kelak..
Aamiin..

Bismillah..
Step by step to change for the better..
Keep say Bismillah before start..
Keep preserve mandate..
Because the promise Allah is sure..

''Ya Allah tetapkanlah Iman dan Islam di hati kami..

Jadikanlah kami saudara bukan hanya di dunia namun juga di akhirat..

Pertemukanlah kami semua dalam surgamu..

Kuatkanlah Adik-adik kami..

Jangan biarkan Adik-adik kami melakukan kesalahan yang sama..

Jadikanlah Adik-adik kami kebanggaan kami di dunia maupun di akhirat..

Dan mudahkanlah perhitungan hisab kami semua di hadapanmu kelak.."

Aamiin.. :)

Keep smile to "National Examination Day"

Tersenyum bukan karna menganggap semua hal itu baik, tetapi dengan tersenyum, semuanya akan jadi lebih baik..
#Today's Quote

Entah mengapa, itulah kata-kata yang tepat untuk menggambarkan hari ini..

Alhamdulillah, walaupun hari ini adalah hari yang berat dan melelahkan, tetapi ternyata Allah telah menyisipkan sebuah pelajaran berharga..

Dihari ini, Allah telah memberikan ujian double..

Yaps..
Double..
Karna dihari ini Allah telah memberikan saya kesempatan untuk menempuh Ujian Nasional (UN) plus situasi yang menguji keimanan, kejujuran, serta kesabaran saya..

Semoga Allah memberikan saya hasil terbaik dari ujian-ujian ini..
Aamiin.. :)

"National Examination Day"
Wednesday, 6 April 2016

Jumat, 19 Februari 2016

The Biggest Hope? Fears? Why Not Try?

Dreams, planning of future is the purpose of life..

Can say, without this, a person will lose direction in life..
because with this, a person can makes estimate want to be the future and how steps should be done to make it real..

But, in life the fact not always same expectations..
and the start do something, sometimes there are fear and concern in heart..

And this example, I have a song that illustrates..

Kim Soo Hyun – Dreaming

저 멀리 희미해지는 나의꿈을 바라보며 멍하니 서있었죠
jeo meolli huimihaejineun nauikkumeul barabomyeo meonghani seoisseotjyo
더 이상 남은게 없어 모두 포기할까 했었지만
deo isang nameunge eobseo modu pogihalkka haesseotjiman
다시 일어나요
dasi ireonayo

한 걸음 한 걸음 오늘도 조심스럽게 내딛어요
han georeum han georeum oneuldo josimseureopge naedideoyo
가슴 가득히 두려움과 설레임을 안은 체
gaseum gadeukhi duryeoumgwa seolleimeul aneun che
비틀거리고 흔들려도 난 또 한걸음을 내딛어요
biteulgeorigo heundeullyeodo nan tto hangeoreumeul naedideoyo
언젠가 만날 내 꿈을 향해
eonjenga mannal nae kkumeul hyanghae

이대로 끝내는건 아닐지
idaero kkeutnaeneungeon anilji
두려움이 날 자꾸만 망설이게 하지만
duryeoumi nal jakkuman mangseorige hajiman
가슴속 깊은 곳에서
gaseumsok gipeun goseseo
멈추지 않은 울림이 날 앞으로 이끌죠
meomchuji anheun ullimi nal apeuro ikkeuljyo

한 걸음 한 걸음 오늘도 조심스럽게 내딛어요
han georeum han georeum oneuldo josimseureopge naedideoyo
가슴 가득히 두려움과 설레임을 안은 체
gaseum gadeukhi duryeoumgwa seolleimeul aneun che
비틀거리고 흔들려도 난 또 한걸음을 내딛어요
biteulgeorigo heundeullyeodo nan tto hangeoreumeul naedideoyo
언젠가 만날 내 꿈을 향해
eonjenga mannal nae kkumeul hyanghae

한 걸음 한 걸음 오늘도 조심스럽게 내딛어요
han georeum han georeum oneuldo josimseureopge naedideoyo
가슴 가득히 두려움과 설레임을 안은 체
gaseum gadeukhi duryeoumgwa seolleimeul aneun che
비틀거리고 흔들려도 난 또 한걸음을 내딛어요
biteulgeorigo heundeullyeodo nan tto hangeoreumeul naedideoyo
언젠가 만날 내 꿈을 향해
eonjenga mannal nae kkumeul hyanghae
언젠가 만날 내 꿈을 향해
eonjenga mannal nae kkumeul hyanghae

And this "English Translation"

I was looking at my dream that is being deemed far away
And I was standing blankly
I don’t have anything left any more
I thought about giving up everything, but
I am standing up again

Even today step by step
I step forward carefully
My heart is full of fears
but it’s an excitement I’m embracing
I am staggering and shaking
But, I step forward towards
the dream that I am going to meet some day

As I’m thinking if it’s going to end like this
A fear constantly comes
I’m hesitating but
Deep inside my heart
There’s an unstoppable beating
that drags me forward

Even today step by step
I step forward carefully
My heart is full of fears
but it’s an excitement I’m embracing
I am staggering and shaking
But, I step forward towards
the dream that I am going to meet some day

Even today step by step
I step forward carefully
My heart is full of fears
but it’s an excitement I’m embracing
I am staggering and shaking
But, I step forward towards
the dream that I am going to meet some day

Towards the dream that I am going to meet some day - See more at: http://fantasy4yu.blogspot.co.id/2013/07/lirik-lagu-kim-soo-hyun-dreaming-dream.html#sthash.2kjwui2B.dpuf

Yaps..

Maybe, the ilustrate situation ever happpened..

In my opinion to overcome it with "Takdir, Tawakal, Ikhtiar, Doa"

"Why I say it?"

First Takdir..

we know that Allah make the best plan for us.

one of them is self potential that if explore will be support us to realizing dreams..

Second Tawakal..

with Tawakal, we will be more "Ikhlas" to accept the plan that has been prepared by Allah..

and this also make us more understand, "What and How" the self potential do you have..

Third Ikhtiar..

in the world, if we want something, we must try to do..

sometimes at the moment it, we meet fail..

but, this is really process that make we are always learn to be the best in the future..

Last Doa..

pray become make us more remember and near with Allah..
and avoid us of arrogant character..
because in front Allah, we not comparable..

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِم

“Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib suatu kaum kecuali kaum itu sendiri yang mengubah apa apa yang pada diri mereka ”
Qs.Ar Rad:11

* A note for the author

With Allah by My Side, Nothing is Impossible

Senin, 28 Desember 2015

Not Mistake "Se Capite"

Maybe, in every day..

You see or even in fact, you are one of the people who tend have characteristic quiet.

Many people think, this is can make person become antisocial, and then there with would build a wall whose obstructing life, job, and make people give wrong opinion about their self portrait.

But, what the argument is really?

For answer the Question, I remember the quotes from Susan Cain..

‘’ Introverts think before they act, digest information thoroughly, stay on task longer, give up less easily, and work more accurately. Introverts and extroverts also direct their attention differently. If you leave them to their own devices, the introverts tend to sit around wondering about things, imagining things recalling events from their past, and making plans for the future. The extroverts are more likely to focus on what’s happening around them. It’s as if extroverts are seeing ‘what is’ while their introverted peers are asking ‘what if’. ‘’

-Susan Cain-

Perhaps, the quotes can began question in our mind. ‘What it is the power of introvert?’

The Psychotherapy and Writter book of "The Introvert Advantage", Martin Oisen Laney saying..
Be based on his research, signal in brain introvert have long groove more than extrovert. So, introvert more than lasted reaction about a question, but their have more than respons about a lot meaning.

Many people believe the introvert same shy. Can said, shyness in this context is similar scaring interaction with society and fear of social judgement. But introvert difference..
Introvert is personality who prefers comfortable in their mind than doing activities with others.
Their leaning listen and observe around situation in the quiet. In the working, their like a little slowly in order to careful, observe details, and focus step by step. Sometime, a lot will be talk when sensed have enought information and this opportune time. In this reason, don't surprised if their leaning give accurate respons.

It is indeed so, characteristic of introvert felt confuse for half people especially for extrovert.
But, same with extrovert comfortable his personality, our introvert also..

We 'Capite' leaning difficult interacting in public..
But, if you try little 'Capite' with our..
I believe, you can understand what I mean..

* A Notes for The Author:

‘’ Yes, I am an introverts. No, I’m not stuck up. No, I’m not antisocial. I’m just listening. I’m just observing. In friendship, I give priority to quality than quantity. Respect that I am reserved. And if I open myself up to you, know that means you’re very special to me. ‘’

Senin, 21 Desember 2015

"Dekapan Ukhuwah"

Dibalik pesona pancaran kemilau rintik hujan yang membasahi bumi sang ilahi

Terbesit renungan menapaki kenangan lukisan warna kehidupan ini

Ku teringat saat kaki ini melangkah ragu

Ya Rahman, akankah ini adalah rangkaian rencana terindahmu?

Masih terngiang dalam kalbuku, rona kerisauan para saudara seimanku dalam kesunyian

Sedih, pilu, kecewa membaur padu menjadi satu jua

Di saat ekspetasi yang kokoh berangsur redup bagai fatamorgana tak berujung

Hanya derai air mata dan kegelisahan yang terhempas menghiasi sujudku dalam sepertiga malammu

Laksana titik balik koordinat penghujung

Menyisipkan bayangan memori permai

Bahana gema takbir yang mengggetarkan fuad

Kesyahduan lantunan firmanmu tentramkan ruhiyah

Senyuman tulus ungkapan salam

Tawa canda kesucian kakak beradik dalam ikatan ukhuwah

Bersinergi menyingkap kehebatan kata la illa ha illallah

Bismillah..

Asa angan yang tergambar dalam garis khayal ufuk timur

Serentak kita gapai

Walau terkadang action mustahil secara logika

Namun menyisakan sebuah mukjizat nan memukau

Melesat terjang gugurkan kebatilan

Mengokohkan tauhid yang haqiqi

Berjuang tingkatkan nalar serta daya upaya

Mengidupkan potensi besar yang tersembunyi

Berpetualang memperoleh kunci-kunci keridhoan Allah

Together

Start from here

We kept step in “Dekapan Ukhuwah”

*Our song

Percaya pada Allah..

Meski di gelap malam..

Kami tak sendirian..

Orang-orang..

Ketakutan..

Karna gak punya iman..

Dan kami anak rohis..

Walaupun dompet tipis..

Yang penting tetap manis.. :D

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